Ask Yourself What Kind of Relationship are you in?
Friendlationship?
Are you a Friend with Benefits?
Are you in a Real Relationship? Are you both aware of the relationship?
Does having sex more than once equate to you being in a relationship?
Does Dating and Relationship mean the same? Can it be easily confused?
Friendlationship?
Are you a Friend with Benefits?
Are you in a Real Relationship? Are you both aware of the relationship?
Does having sex more than once equate to you being in a relationship?
Does Dating and Relationship mean the same? Can it be easily confused?
Are You Mentally Prepared To Have Sex On The First Date?
Sex on the first date, doesn't mean that your dating.
Yes, it could turn into a relationship after that hot or not so hot night of passion, or it could turn out to be just that, that one night night.
Some are ready, some are not - Before you make that move, make sure you're sure
Tip: Be prepared; know your status, find out theirs. Condoms are not the only personal protection you may need; a fully charged cellphone, money and a way to protect yourself from harm.
Dating violence is also a risk.-Protect yourself, you never know!
Sex on the first date, doesn't mean that your dating.
Yes, it could turn into a relationship after that hot or not so hot night of passion, or it could turn out to be just that, that one night night.
Some are ready, some are not - Before you make that move, make sure you're sure
Tip: Be prepared; know your status, find out theirs. Condoms are not the only personal protection you may need; a fully charged cellphone, money and a way to protect yourself from harm.
Dating violence is also a risk.-Protect yourself, you never know!
The 90 Day Rule
Hmmm...this is a double edged sword. A man can wait 90 days and then dump you right after your first sexual encounter. While he's on his 90 waiting period with you, he could be having sex with other women in the meantime. What happens if after the 90 day waiting period is over and after you have sex, the woman realizes she's no longer interested. Yes, 90 days can give you time to bond, but some people will do whatever it takes to get what they want from you.
Relationships shouldn't be cookie-cutter; what works for you may not work for others,
Remember, when you meet that special someone, that true love, you must be
ready to put in work to keep it.
Hmmm...this is a double edged sword. A man can wait 90 days and then dump you right after your first sexual encounter. While he's on his 90 waiting period with you, he could be having sex with other women in the meantime. What happens if after the 90 day waiting period is over and after you have sex, the woman realizes she's no longer interested. Yes, 90 days can give you time to bond, but some people will do whatever it takes to get what they want from you.
Relationships shouldn't be cookie-cutter; what works for you may not work for others,
Remember, when you meet that special someone, that true love, you must be
ready to put in work to keep it.
Have You Given Up On Love?
Sometimes we look for love in others, before seeking it from within.
Perhaps what you think you are ready for, you are actually not.
Take your time, what's meant to be will be all in due time.
Often times people jump into a new relationship without detoxing from the old, in turn bringing in old baggage, which can sometimes sabotage the relationship, before it really begins.
What ever happened to good old fashion dating? We live in a microwave world where everyone wants everything quick fast and in a hurry, including relationships - Like anything worth having, a good relationship takes time.
Sometimes we look for love in others, before seeking it from within.
Perhaps what you think you are ready for, you are actually not.
Take your time, what's meant to be will be all in due time.
Often times people jump into a new relationship without detoxing from the old, in turn bringing in old baggage, which can sometimes sabotage the relationship, before it really begins.
What ever happened to good old fashion dating? We live in a microwave world where everyone wants everything quick fast and in a hurry, including relationships - Like anything worth having, a good relationship takes time.
Online Dating
Did dating go out the window due to technology?
There are many success stories, but then there are also some horror stories as well. When you begin dating online, you first meet the representative for that person. Sometimes for weeks or even months. There's pictures, phone chats; Facetime, Google Chat, Oovoo and Skype, if it progresses to that level. You invest a lot of time with that person and then the moment you are waiting for happens,,,the infamous in-person meeting - that's when you realize whether he or she is or is not the one, then it's back to the drawing board or the love affair blossoms into so much more.
Precaution:
Always let someone know where you're going and also give them some information on the person who you're going on a date with. This is just in case something happens, Pick a place that you're comfortable with. Know your surroundings, take precaution, but don't become paranoid.
Enjoy your date.
Like mentioned above, dating violence is a risk.-Protect yourself, you never know!
First Date No No's:
Movie Theaters, Bowling alleys, Bars, Clubs or anywhere where there is a lot of noise and could be a lot of distractions. First dates are about getting to know one another, you shouldn't be screaming over the noise levels to hear each other.
Did dating go out the window due to technology?
There are many success stories, but then there are also some horror stories as well. When you begin dating online, you first meet the representative for that person. Sometimes for weeks or even months. There's pictures, phone chats; Facetime, Google Chat, Oovoo and Skype, if it progresses to that level. You invest a lot of time with that person and then the moment you are waiting for happens,,,the infamous in-person meeting - that's when you realize whether he or she is or is not the one, then it's back to the drawing board or the love affair blossoms into so much more.
Precaution:
Always let someone know where you're going and also give them some information on the person who you're going on a date with. This is just in case something happens, Pick a place that you're comfortable with. Know your surroundings, take precaution, but don't become paranoid.
Enjoy your date.
Like mentioned above, dating violence is a risk.-Protect yourself, you never know!
First Date No No's:
Movie Theaters, Bowling alleys, Bars, Clubs or anywhere where there is a lot of noise and could be a lot of distractions. First dates are about getting to know one another, you shouldn't be screaming over the noise levels to hear each other.
Do you have a "Check List" of requirements for your potential partner?
Be sure you have a realistic check list. ( Remember, you are not a kid in the candy store.)
Tip: Never expect something from others, that you are not willing to give yourself
This may help you scale down your list.
Be sure you have a realistic check list. ( Remember, you are not a kid in the candy store.)
Tip: Never expect something from others, that you are not willing to give yourself
This may help you scale down your list.
Attraction
Yes it is the physical attributes that my catch your eye at first, but it's the non physical attributes that will capture your heart, like personality knowledge and wisdom.
Yes it is the physical attributes that my catch your eye at first, but it's the non physical attributes that will capture your heart, like personality knowledge and wisdom.
Dating Don'ts
Don't ask questions you really don't need to know the answer to, as it may lead you
thinking too much and create unnecessary heartache.
Tip:
Never ask about your potential boyfriend/girlfriend’s ex’s
(you don’t need to know that)
Remember, it’s about moving forward, not back.
Tip:
Don't Stereotype your boyfriend/girlfriend
All men are not dogs or deadbeat fathers
All women are not clingy, nagging or naive
Don't ask questions you really don't need to know the answer to, as it may lead you
thinking too much and create unnecessary heartache.
Tip:
Never ask about your potential boyfriend/girlfriend’s ex’s
(you don’t need to know that)
Remember, it’s about moving forward, not back.
Tip:
Don't Stereotype your boyfriend/girlfriend
All men are not dogs or deadbeat fathers
All women are not clingy, nagging or naive
Relationship Do's
Be accountable for your own actions.
Acknowledge your faults.
Apologize for being wrong.
Be honest about your feelings
Never go to bed angry.
Communicate, Communicate, Communicate.
Tip:
Don't assume you know the answer, before the questions is even asked - listen first.
Make an effort to see that change maybe needed, then make an effort to change.
Be accountable for your own actions.
Acknowledge your faults.
Apologize for being wrong.
Be honest about your feelings
Never go to bed angry.
Communicate, Communicate, Communicate.
Tip:
Don't assume you know the answer, before the questions is even asked - listen first.
Make an effort to see that change maybe needed, then make an effort to change.